he house you Need and the one you Dream of are not always synonymous. But hopefully the home you need can also fulfill some of your dreams.
Case in point, from personal experience, the parameters of our last home purchases was based mostly on need. The last two houses we bought were for ease of living and didn’t really fulfill that many of our dreams. While both houses were nice, we knew we needed something that would allow us (me) the ease of getting around, knowing that I was looking at knee replacements in the near future. The first home, which we lived in for exactly 2 years , because we ended up moving out of town, was made to be ours with some painting, upgraded counters, and new lights. The second house, in which we currently reside, was brand new with some upgrades such as hardwood floors, a tile shower, and backsplash. The colors are not what we would have chosen, and we prefer solid surface counters but we will make do. Most importantly, our home allows for single floor living, has only a 2 step entry, wider hallways, and a walk-in shower.
What did we give up by having our needs met versus our dreams? In reality, not a lot. We still have a nice home although we would prefer one with more character. High on our dream list was a sunroom, which didn’t come with the house but we added, much to our delight. We can create character if we choose but most importantly, we have a roof over our heads and it is easy to get around the house. It meets our needs.
Although as a Realtor, it is my job to make your dreams come true, I work hard to keep your feet firmly planted so your needs are fulfilled and dreams can follow. You want to buy a home for today and the tomorrows’ that follow. As in my case, if we followed our hearts, I wouldn’t have been able to navigate around my home following my recent knee replacement.
A young mother recently asked if she should buy the home she wants today or the one that will accommodate the children she plans on having in the next few years. It really depends on what she can afford today. If she can afford the home of the future,I’d say do it because with rising interest rates and home prices, it will cost more in the future. Generally, people only live in a home for 5-7 years. Today, Buyers are looking farther down the road. We commonly hear, “We want to buy our forever home.” If that is the case for you, than think about what your needs will be in the future and whether the house fulfills them or can easily be adapted later. We really need a roof over our heads to keep us warm and dry. Although the house may not be the home of your current dreams, when it is filled with love, family, and friends, your needs and dreams may become synonymous.